No Conclusion!

Why do people even bother to talk when they are going to leave things hanging in the midst? And if they ever do return, it’s with such obviously lame excuses that you may just want to shoot yourself in the head to get rid of all the stupidness!

Recently I was talking to this guy, and then one day he just disappeared with no reason whatsoever, no sms, no call… just no response. A friend had a date and when it was time, the date just switches his cell off… Now, come on!!! Cell phones don’t just die just like that, when battery is getting low you still have more than enough time to let people know you won’t be able to stay in touch.

Then there are the ones who start avoiding you to not end the relation with confusion and misunderstanding, but what exactly do they think of achieving by disappearing? And more than anything they just sound like they are too coward to face reality and try to solve it out.

Its still loads better if they were to just say something like “You know, xyz, I like you. But I don’t think I’m interested in this with you anymore” and not leave the other hanging while they go off too coward to say anything. Is it really so rude to tell a person why you are unable to continue on with him? Seriously considering, what’s worse? To tell him how horrible he has been or to just vanish without a trace or care as to how the other might feel?

‘Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise’

So that means being ignorant of the fact that you still might be hurting somebody some how makes you better than knowingly doing it?

Or maybe its just me with all these loads of foolish ideas, what’s it really worth to know why? It didn’t work out. Period. Does it really matter all that much now? After a breakup I can’t help but think of all the good things he had, of how I’ll miss all the good parts of him, I’d re-read all the messages, go over all the glory details, cropping out all the bad parts and pretty much making myself miserable and depressed for something or rather somebody that don’t even matter anymore. For if I concentrate so much of my energy focusing on the past how can I possibly see what may lie ahead in the future?